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There are some couples who claim they have never quarreled since getting married, but this is an exception. Most couples argue and quarrel.
When conflicts increase, some take marriage classes or seek counseling. That s good. It helps. However, no matter how hard the couples try, their conflicts never disappear completely. This is because there is a relational gap that cannot be narrowed between man and wife.
This gap comes from the fact they are male and female. It also come from the difference in their personalities. Or it may be a result of their different upbringings.
Trying to eliminate this gap entirely is neither realistic nor desirable. Seeking a conflict-free relationship may actually intensify conflicts rather than resolve them.
This relational gap is not something to eliminate but to celebrate. Husbands and wives can complement each other. Their differences can actually help stabilize their marriage, similar to how a train runs more safely on two parallel rails than a monorail.
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